Masculine or Feminine? Understanding Gender Roles in India

CGurval
10 min readFeb 14, 2023

As a cultural enthusiast, I have always been drawn to exploring and experiencing new ways of life. My journey in India has been nothing short of a transformative adventure, brimming with surprises and unforgettable moments.

Living in India has brought me face-to-face with a plethora of differences compared to my home country. From the way of life, food, and language to the diverse customs and traditions, every day in India has been a learning experience for me.

But what has truly added an extra layer of excitement to this journey is my association with a French woman in Industream export who is equally intrigued by the Indian way of life.

Together, we have explored the colorful streets of India, tasted local delicacies, and indulged in the rich cultural heritage of this land. Our journey has been full of contrasts, with moments of awe and amazement mixed with the occasional confusion and amusement. But it has been a journey worth taking, as we continue to discover new facets of ourselves and the world around us.

As I settled in and learned more about the local culture, I began to see that the differences between French and Indian ways of life extended beyond surface-level observations. One particularly striking difference is the way gender roles are defined and perceived in India. This realization led me to explore further and try to understand the complex interplay of social norms, cultural values, and historical factors that shape the gender roles in Indian society.

In this article, I will delve deeper into the topic of gender roles in India and share my observations and insights.

Thar desert, February 2021

Definition of Gender Roles:

Gender roles refer to the societal norms, expectations, and behaviors that are associated with being male or female in a particular culture. These roles are shaped by cultural, historical, and socio-economic factors, and they can vary greatly from one society to another. Gender roles can dictate everything from what jobs someone is expected to perform, to what type of clothes they should wear, to how they should behave in relationships and family life.

As a philosophical and personal matter, gender roles raise questions about the nature of gender itself, and whether it is a biologically determined characteristic or a social construct. It is important to understand that while gender is a biological distinction, gender roles are learned and can be changed over time. Understanding gender roles is crucial in order to challenge and break down stereotypes and promote gender equality, which is essential for creating a fair and just society.

Importance of Understanding Gender Roles in India:

India is a complex and diverse country, with a rich cultural heritage and a rapidly developing economy. As such, it is essential for individuals, both foreign and domestic, to have a deep understanding of the country’s gender roles and how they are changing.

In India, traditional gender roles have been deeply ingrained in society for centuries, with men and women each having specific responsibilities and expectations placed upon them. However, in recent years, there has been a shift towards more modern gender roles, as women become more empowered and better educated.

Understanding these shifts in gender roles is important for a variety of reasons.

Firstly, it allows individuals to better understand and respect the diverse experiences of men and women in India, and to promote gender equality and diversity.

Secondly, it helps individuals and organizations to develop more effective policies and programs that promote gender equality and address the challenges facing women and girls in India.

Traditional Gender Roles in India:

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As a French observer in India, I have been struck by the deep-seated traditional gender roles that shape the lives of men and women in this fascinating country. In India, for centuries, men and women have been assigned specific roles and expectations based on their gender, and these traditional gender roles continue to influence behavior and attitudes today.

Traditionally, Indian men are seen as the providers and protectors of the family, and are expected to take on the main responsibility for earning a living. Women, on the other hand, are typically viewed as homemakers, tasked with the care of the household and children. This gendered division of labor is rooted in India’s patriarchal society, where men hold a position of power and authority over women.

These traditional gender roles are further reinforced by religious and cultural beliefs, which often paint women as weaker and less capable than men. As a result, women in India face widespread discrimination, and have limited opportunities for education, employment, and political participation. This is evident in the practice of dowry, where a bride’s family must provide a substantial sum of money or property to the groom’s family at the time of marriage.

As a visitor to India, I have been struck by the persistence and influence of traditional gender roles in this complex and dynamic country. Despite efforts to challenge these roles and promote gender equality, they continue to shape the lives of men and women in India and limit the opportunities and potential of women and girls.

Understanding Gender Roles in India

Male Roles:

  • The Protector and Provider: Indian men are traditionally seen as the protectors and providers of their families. They are expected to be the main breadwinners, supporting and safeguarding their families financially and physically.
  • The Head of the Household: Indian men are often viewed as the head of the household, with the ultimate responsibility for decision-making and family welfare.
  • The Spiritual Leader: In many Indian families, men are also expected to be spiritual leaders, guiding and directing the religious practices of their families.

Female Roles:

  • Caregiver and Homemaker: Indian women are traditionally seen as caregivers and homemakers. They are expected to be devoted to the care of their families, performing domestic duties and nurturing their children.
  • Devoted Wife and Mother: Indian women are also expected to be devoted wives and mothers, providing emotional support and stability to their families.
  • Respect for Elders: In India, women are taught to show respect and deference to their elders, both within and outside the family.

As a French observer of India, I have been both struck by the persistence of these traditional gender roles and inspired by the signs of change and progress. Despite the persistence of these roles, I have seen a growing recognition of the need for gender equality and a commitment to challenging and transforming these roles. For example, the recent election of a woman as the President of India is a powerful symbol of this change, demonstrating that women are capable of assuming positions of power and influence in this dynamic country.

Of course, change does not happen overnight, and there is still a long way to go in achieving true gender equality in India. Nevertheless, I am encouraged by the progress that has been made and the increasing willingness of people to challenge and transform traditional gender roles. Whether it be through education, activism, or legislation, it is clear that the future of India is one in which both men and women will have the opportunity to reach their full potential and contribute to the development and prosperity of the nation.

Effects on Mental Health and Well-Being

Pressure to Conform to Stereotypical Gender Roles: The strict adherence to traditional gender roles in India can put a great deal of pressure on individuals to conform to societal expectations. This pressure can lead to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and depression, particularly for those who do not fit into the prescribed gender roles.

Difficulty in Balancing Family and Career: For many Indian men and women, the expectations associated with their gender roles can make it difficult to balance their personal and professional lives. Women may feel torn between their responsibilities as homemakers and their desire to pursue careers, while men may struggle to live up to the expectations of being the sole providers for their families. This difficulty in balancing family and career can lead to stress and burnout, affecting mental health and well-being.

Low Self-Esteem and Confidence: The strict expectations surrounding gender roles in India can also lead to low self-esteem and a lack of confidence in individuals who feel that they are not meeting societal expectations. This can be especially challenging for women, who may face additional obstacles and discrimination in the workplace and in other areas of life.

Personnaly, I have observed that education can be a pillar of change in overcoming these challenges. With more and more Indians studying abroad and gaining exposure to different cultures and ideas, they are able to bring back the best of what they have learned and put it into practice. Through education, they can challenge traditional gender roles and become advocates for equality and progress. By embracing diversity and promoting gender equality, India has the potential to become a leader in the fight against gender-based discrimination and to support mental health and well-being for all its citizens.

Impact of Gender Roles on Indian Society

Gender Inequality and Discrimination:

The traditional gender roles in India have a significant impact on the wider society, contributing to gender inequality and discrimination.

Unequal Access to Education and Job Opportunities: Women in India often face unequal access to education and job opportunities, with the gender wage gap remaining high and women frequently underrepresented in leadership positions.

Domestic Violence and Harassment: Women are also vulnerable to domestic violence and harassment, with limited support and resources available to help them.

The Stigma Surrounding Mental Health: There is also a significant stigma surrounding mental health in India, particularly for women, with many people failing to seek help or support when they need it.

I feel that collectivist approach, combined with the power distance and the traditional gender roles, can exacerbate these issues and impact the well-being of women. However, I have also seen the positive impact of the cosmopolitanism of big cities and the easy access to information and communication facilitated by new technologies. A new era of greater equality is emerging, with more women breaking down barriers and challenging traditional gender roles. This shift towards a more modern and equal society will hopefully bring new opportunities for both men and women to thrive.

Breaking the Stereotypes

Embracing Gender Equality and Diversity:

Gender equality and diversity are crucial in breaking down stereotypical gender roles and promoting a more inclusive society. It is essential to embrace and celebrate the unique strengths and abilities of both men and women, without limiting them based on gender.

Encouraging Women’s Empowerment and Education:

Women’s empowerment and education are powerful tools in breaking down gender stereotypes and promoting equality. Education provides women with the skills and knowledge they need to succeed, while empowering them to assert their rights and pursue their goals.

Supporting Non-Traditional Gender Roles:

In a society where gender roles are so deeply ingrained, it is essential to support and encourage individuals who choose to pursue non-traditional roles. By embracing diversity and promoting equality, we can break down the barriers that prevent individuals from fulfilling their full potential.

Promoting Positive Mental Health and Well-Being:

Breaking down gender stereotypes and embracing gender equality can also have a positive impact on mental health and well-being. By freeing individuals from limiting gender roles, we can help promote self-esteem, reduce stress and anxiety, and create a more supportive and inclusive society.

Importance of Challenging Stereotypical Gender Roles:

Challenging and breaking down gender stereotypes is essential in promoting personal growth and development, as well as building a more inclusive society.

Encouraging Personal Growth and Development:

By challenging gender stereotypes, we can help individuals to reach their full potential, both personally and professionally. This can lead to greater fulfillment, satisfaction, and success in life.

Breaking the Cycle of Gender-Based Violence:

Gender stereotypes and gender-based violence are deeply interconnected. By breaking down gender stereotypes and promoting equality, we can help reduce instances of gender-based violence and create a safer and more supportive society.

Building a More Inclusive Society:

Ultimately, by breaking down gender stereotypes and embracing gender equality, we can help build a more inclusive society. By celebrating diversity and promoting equal opportunities, we can create a brighter future for all, regardless of gender.

Change is indeed coming with new policies and attitudes. However, it is all our responsibility to make this change happen, and every action we take has an impact. Education will play a key role in this change, and as a young nation, India has the opportunity to develop a modern, equal society.

Let us strive to make this a reality.

In conclusion, understanding the shifts in gender roles in India is of great significance.

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Firstly, it allows us to gain an appreciation of the diverse experiences of men and women in India and to advocate for gender equality and diversity. Secondly, it empowers individuals and organizations to create more effective policies and programs that support gender equality and address the challenges faced by women and girls in India.

As a French entrepreneur based in India, I have observed the resilience and influence of traditional gender roles in this complex culture. Despite efforts to change these roles and promote gender equality, they continue to shape the lives of men and women in India, limiting the opportunities and potential of women and girls.

However, change is on the horizon, and progress has been made. I am inspired by the increasing willingness of people to challenge and transform traditional gender roles, whether through education, activism, or legislation. With more Indians studying abroad and gaining exposure to different cultures, they are becoming advocates for equality and progress.

Furthermore, I believe that education can play a crucial role in promoting gender equality and supporting the well-being of women in India. A new era of greater equality is emerging, with more women breaking down barriers and challenging traditional gender roles. Collectivism, combined with the power distance and traditional gender roles, can exacerbate the challenges faced by women in India, but I have also seen the positive impact of cosmopolitanism in big cities and the ease of access to information and communication facilitated by technology.

In the end, it is up to us to make the change towards a more equal and diverse society. Every action we take has an impact, and it is our responsibility to promote education and strive towards gender equality in India. Let us work together to make this a reality.

Is it man who shapes gender roles or do gender roles shape the man?

In a world where the lines between masculinity and femininity are becoming increasingly blurred, it is more important than ever to understand the roots and evolution of gender roles. And where better to start than in India, a country of rich cultural heritage, where tradition and modernity exist side by side.

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CGurval
CGurval

Written by CGurval

Since 1997. Sometimes philosopher, adventurer, humanist, marketer, learner, gardener & Business man 🌱✈️🌳French consultant 🇫🇷 with a company in 🇮🇳, Pune📌

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